1. Be yourself (but not to much)

You must be sneaky but kind, good but bad, natural and (a bit) superficial. Be SMART.

My grandmother always said :”women must be 5 seconds further forward then a man”. How right was she.

Do not be fake. They will see that and they’ll dump you immediately.

2.Be selfish !

Let me explain why do I advise youto be like this. Altruism is a good thing. But we, women, tend to exaggerate. We give everything and expect everything in return (which will lead us to no. 3). Don’t give everything you own, just wait a bit and let your partner give also. Do not make the mistake to give all your resources, because a relationship means a MUTUAL effort to keep it going. If one struggles a lot, he won t let the other to offer nothing. So your partner will quit struggling and you will be drained and obsessed with him, out of inner resources, you won’t have anything else to give. He will end up saying that you are not the person he once knew and you, my dear, will be dumped.

3. Do not expect anything and don’t be desperate

Men sense that, and they will run away from you. It’s like with us women. When we see someone is trying so hard to get our attention, it becomes obvious that he is desperate. And what do we do, do we love that person back? No. Desperate people force things and forced things and situations, scare us. We don’t feel anything towards them, even compassion. Who wants compassion anyways? If someone’s pushing us, we utter a stupid a stupid excuse, and run screaming in the opposite direction.

4.Be independent and know yourself

Man love strong, self-confident women. Don’t wear blue or eat something he asks only because he said so. When he wants you to jump, do not respond with : how high? Have a personality. YOUR personality.

You should have your own needs, hobbies and opinions. If you do not share the same point of view like he does, just tell him. To his face. Be frank and not hysterical (they hate to see women who shout out their feelings). If you cant help it, try to calm down and then talk to your man. No one likes beggars, so do not beg. Be dignified. If a man wants a woman, he will fight for her. Also a wise, independent woman, knows when she should compromise to keep her relationship healthy. After all no one is perfect. She also should know when to forgive. Intolerance is not a plus.

5.Do not dare to share all your secrets!

Men love mystery. Well, I am not suggesting that you should cheat and hide it from him, but a bit of suspense it s welcomed in a relationship. Charisma is a great weapon you have so, use it.

6.Be feminine

Even if you are a rock-punk-metal chick or a hip-hop girl, that does not mean that you have to wear only extra large t-shirts, no make up at all and plain jeans. Wear something that flatters you.

Take care of your nails; they hate unkempt nails, also your hair. Perfume and make up it’s a must. And do not forget sexy lingerie. Even if you already have him, you must keep him. Be passionate and feminine. You have a gift. Your body. Use those sexy curves to drive him crazy.

BONUS tip: Respect and love yourself

If you do, so will everybody else.

Good luck, girls !